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Wednesday, 13 April 2016

2 LIFE HACKS

Advice: 2 Life Hacks




These are the two qualities, I believe, will help you handle pretty much any situation and even achieve success. I think we can all work on improving these qualities, to help us to become better people, (I know I need to).




1) Understanding


I've always believed the key to life is understanding. Whether you are trying to achieve your dream career or you just need to comfort a friend, understanding is always the first step. For example: if you want to become a successful fashion blogger, first you must understand how to make that possible and the steps you need to take to get there. 



More recently, I have discovered understanding is the key to acceptance. I spent a large chunk of my life holding a grudge against someone because of how they treated me. In time, I came to see the situation from their perspective and understood why they acted that way. It allowed me to get some closer on the situation and move forward.

Understanding your fellow human beings is important. I don't believe there are bad people out there, there are just people who make bad choices because they believe what they are doing is right.



2) The Ability to Act on that Understanding


Now, here is the part I find difficult. I actually have a really good level of understanding but I can hardly ever seem to act upon it, or I act in the opposite way to which I know I should. I guess that's because I have a self sabotaging side, which sometimes doesn't want me to be happy. 



A lot of people seem to self sabotage. Like: if you understand that - to be happy - you need to leave your current job and find a different career. A lot of people I know, seem to have that thought but they don't act on it. Instead, they just  continue on their current path and moan a lot. All we're doing is standing in the way of our own happiness... because we are scared of change, scared to try or just scared of possible negative outcomes to our actions. Isn't it better to try and fail then never to try at all?

Maybe we all just need to take a leap and act on our understanding.


What I Wore

Skirt: Forever 21
Shoes: New Look

What do you feel the most important qualities a person can have are? I would love to hear your thoughts so please leave a comment in the comment box bellow.



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10 comments:

  1. Anonymous4/13/2016

    Love this post. You have great style :)

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  2. Great post, I love your outfit too! I think your blog is lovely by the way, let me know if you would like to follow each other!

    adelelydia.blogspot.com

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  3. Thanks, so much for commenting Adele. I will look at your blog and give it a follow!

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  4. I loved reading this post! You're so right. But I think every person has a self sabotaging side. I think we all hear voices in our heads telling us that we can't do something or to give up. I've heard many successful people saying that they feel this way too, but they just choose not to listen to that voice. I think this is key. Changes are usually scary and it's more convenient to "play it safe", but the truth is we'll all ultimately die, so there's no reason to worry about failing or about what others will think. I like to look at it this way, it pushes me to act even if I'm scared.

    Have a great weekend!

    Joanna

    http://stylestandpoint.com

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  5. This is such a great read and very inspiring! You look gorgeous in the photos too xx

    http://www.thatnewdress.com

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  6. Great post. Well done.
    I love your style and your blog.
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    many kisses

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  7. This is a really lovely post and I love that you've accepted yourself! I love your style and hair do in these photos too xxx

    Sam // Samantha Betteridge

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  8. Thanks Samantha, Welovefur, That New Dress & Joanna. Your comments mean a lot to me :) And, I love your outlook for taking risks, Joanna.

    Rosa Xx

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  9. yeah good tips chicks. I love this outfit too, that skirt is lovely
    Lauren

    livinginaboxx | bloglovin

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